the isle of wight--UK
heres a link to other UK members:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/197364/ex-jw-uk?page=1&size=20
alot of members don't have a flag or country name beside their user name, and well frequently one doesn't know where that particular person is from, tell us your country, state, county or what ever you feel like giving out.
if you are going to post please at least devulge your country.. me, i'm originally from taranaki, new zealand via auckland.
for the most of this decade i have been living & working in brisbane, queensland, australia.. .
the isle of wight--UK
heres a link to other UK members:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/197364/ex-jw-uk?page=1&size=20
warning of a long boring post ahead.
i feel like i need to vent my story out, as i feel quite helpless at the moment.. i'm 31 year old, married, father of toddler with another one on the way, due later this month.
i've been serving as elder for about 4 years now in a south florida congregation.
hi Sanchy---you wrote:
So, this is my situation. Elders are still in process of sending my details to CO and branch, awaiting their approval for my resignation
err---what --????
is that your words---or theirs --?
just what happens if "they" dont approve your resignation ?---do they then d/f you instead ?
to myself it means to seek knowledge and understanding of are selves and the world in which we live.. unfortunately history has shown whenever one tries to connect to god and of his knowledge through men who say they themselves are connected to god through spiritual wifi ie.
gb members of the jehovah's witnesses for example, one usually ends up finding a accumulation of only man's acquired knowledge.
over thousands of years of trying to connect to a god(s) for help and answers, mankind has eventually relinquished himself to seeking answers through scientific investigative acquired knowledge of the world in which we live in.
i might as well believe in god.
i believe in the loch ness monster, fairies, thomas the tank engine. angels, father christmas. the devil. superman.
so it makes sense to hedge my bets.
wow....has it been a while!
i hope many of you are doing good!
it's awesome to see many of you holding strong, and keeping the site going!.
on a previous post mamacita29 pointed up the low quality of new jw converts.. is the quality falling even more as the society use lower than low meeting, talks, broadcasts etc.. when i was active initially the organisation and standards seemed totally different today.
i have seen hard working intelligent elders fall by death or exhaustion.
the younger generation that came along never really grasped responsibility hence shortage of good elders, never mind the watered down to almost nothing quality of meetings.
i have 7 grandchildren born into the cult----aged 20 down to below 10. ive yet to meet them. but i'm ever hopeful they will follow the trend whereby about half will leave sooner rather than later.
my most recent grandson --born last may---is thankfully born free of it.
on a previous post mamacita29 pointed up the low quality of new jw converts.. is the quality falling even more as the society use lower than low meeting, talks, broadcasts etc.. when i was active initially the organisation and standards seemed totally different today.
i have seen hard working intelligent elders fall by death or exhaustion.
the younger generation that came along never really grasped responsibility hence shortage of good elders, never mind the watered down to almost nothing quality of meetings.
this month makes 26 years since i disassociated from the wt org.
i have not visited a kh or assembly hall once since.
that includes no memorial attendance.
the sad thing about this shunning--is--it works both ways.
talking to my d/f son the other night---after his grandads funeral ( my jw father ). my son commented he had already mourned the loss--years before. as well as his jw mum and sister. they were all dead to him. its the way he copes with it.
which ever country you come from, if you are a football fan you know of the f.a cup.
because the f.a cup is the oldest and most prestigious cup competition in the world.
or at least that's the way it was when i was a kid.. now this wonderful competition has been cheapened to a non event.
i lived in west bromwich the year they won the fa cup--about 69--70--?
the crowd to welcome the team home finally put me off football --for life.
the only jw's i know--- now--are my 1st wife--and my daughter. they share the same house. being dubs suits them perfectly. they shun my d/f son...so are unlikely to ever meet his young son.
but for all that--blood is thicker than water--so--i live in hope--but realistically i cant see them changing.